Seshendra Babu

1. Wife : Pros : Very good person and educated. Always try to give her best if she is aware of. Even follows all traditions if she knows them. Always tries to understand the family members and adjust accordingly. Tries to apply for job despite doing all the household chores. Appreciate it. Tries to apologize even if she doesn’t do any wrong in order to make spouse happy. Cons : Should have asked husband for foreplay from first time itself rather than just before maala time(as he desperately wants it then). Shouldn’t say sorry in manners matter but she should have tried to make her husband understand. The tap plumbing problem should tell multiple time to her husband. When doing cleaning its okay if the dishes stink(that’s natural). Shouldn’t feel bad about it. Should have informed husband before applying for job rather that he knows from his father(her mother gave a bad suggestion here). It is understandable that she doesn’t know the customs of Ayyappa deeksha but atleast she should try to ask or learn by watching. She should not disrespect while they are in deeksha despite she was angry on her family. Show angry on them but not at deeksha. And pls pluck tulasi leave from other place than the one you are doing pooja daily(I know it’s by mistake but pls keep that in mind) 2. Husband : Pros : Doesn’t speak any bad words or try to beat her. Cons : First and foremost try to listen and take care of your wife(Happy wife is happy life :) ). Try to understand her and her problems and explain with patience. Help in household chores(it means a lot). Don’t be igoistic. You are a teacher explaining about the family and society. Try to follow it. She came to lift you when you fell. And just before she tried to hide when you started. Don’t yell at her. And have some table manners at home too. Take her feedback in a positive way. Fix the plumbing asap. Try to understand her mentally and physically too. Have some patience. 3. Dad : Pros : Asks politely and refuses politely too. Cons : Should have let her do the job. 4. Kid : Pros : cutie pie. Everyone should have such a daughter. Cons : doesn’t aware of the period and customs of ayyappa deeksha(she is a child and its understandable) 5. Aunt : Pros : very much helpful(but strict). Cons : didn’t explained to the wife with patience. 6. Movie overall : Pros : Explained some families mindset towards women in a nice way. characters were very much relatable. Cons : bro don’t pull hindu traditions in between this family story. don’t disrespect hindu traditions as part of story.