I am about to not even watch the show anymore because of Tamars behavior. Its your birthday fine. You need to be thankful that you and your family is all together to celebrate your damn birthday. She is so damn extra.be thankful for whatever you did get for your birthday. Be happy for your sisters engagement. It seems like everything needs to be about you. You ain't special. You stated you give out Gucci bags on peoples birthday. If you have to speak on what you give people, it ain't from the heart.