Actually read the book and take it for what it is. Opinions are something everyone has but between those lines lies real experiences that exposes both ends of a spectrum. Most of tge negative comments I’ve read, i feel are from people who haven’t even read the book yet. The author is simply providing a perspective we can take what we want from. The book raises a TON of questions that shouldn’t be demonized for being asked. Real accounts, real testimonials, real experiences. A great insight for parents and people studying the field.