This book is a must read for someone who wants to restart their life and feels like they can't. There is some uneasiness in the beginning, but it's worth getting through to learn of someone's wisdom and who they were before they became who they are. Just because you feel like you're stuck in one spot, doesn't mean you are. This book really does make you realize that you're the creator of the type of life you end up with and that it's up to you to do better than before. You learn to get past your insecurities and push through any problem you may come across. The challenges at the end of the chapters, I feel, truly help one come to terms with themselves and their pasts, and any upstairs battles they're facing. MUST READ.