Starting off, cast was fantastic! I mean with the two main leads, I figured it would be great. I appreciated the raw complexity & emotions expressed in this movie. The actors did great showing the emotional gravity of each characters situation. So, in this movie two people meet (not so good intro), then miss one another, to finally cross each others paths again. After a rocky beginning, they start to connect with one other; something neither have done in quite some time. It seemed to me, both not only had issues with cultivating personal relationships but also with giving trust to other people. Both Harvey & Kate have gone through life reserved, aloof & the end result is loneliness. When you are lonely, you start to feel disconnected from those around you, it causes social awkwardness which results in isolation. I do think something this movie does well, is show the viewers how both characters have unintentionally create this themselves, but it wasn't done out of malice. Both are unhappy with how life is going at present & want to change it. Kate, we see, uses her mom as a shield - not even realizing it. She carries a secret, tragic past which likely has her asking if she is a person who deserves happiness or love? Harvey has immersed himself in his work, to ignore his failures & hide away to avoid looking too closely at himself. Kate finally asks him why did he leave his ex wife & kid. His reply, "I woke up one morning & realized I didn't belong in that house." I took the statement to reflect that he could see how unhappy his wife was & in turn his daughter as well & didn't want to be the cause of that unhappiness; & maybe part of him knew that he wasn't doing the best job as husband or dad. So when we see these two characters meet & watch them both start to "wake up" & can see how even they are surprised by it, it's emotionally satisfying. These characters finally find someone who really understands. And this is the key - finding another soul like yours to help heal, to help grow, to show the love & acceptance both need.
Life's messy, we all know that. I just really liked the overall message to maybe slow it down and really connect to others. Emma & Dustin were great of course, the whole cast nailed it! I'll watch it again ๐