Ok hope i word this right because this is life!! I would have let Ben talk because whatever your family went threw we didnt know... So When the mother start talking about his father she said i know you miss him and he said Not that father!!! As a mother and if my son was on drugs i would ask baby what have he done?? The father might have mess with him.. He told her dont ask but hell no i would have ask.. Then the Teacher that supposed to be there for ypur son he had to do thimg tp get drugs from him...