When you comment about this issue as a black or white, yes or no issue, you are proving the point. There are numerous issues presented that any parent should investigate for their children.
1) You can find the numbers of autistic diagnosis and clearly see it has increased exponentially since the 80's. The fact the occurrences are not leveling off is terrifying.
2) Mercury poisoning is government regulated. It should not be ingested.
3) Vaccines have side effects as listed on their information sheets
4) CDC studies suggest booster shots for many vaccines will increase the number of injections, which increases the chances of reaction
5) Why are testing regulations not established in the industry?
Just step back address each issue individually without the emotional response to start the educated discussions either way you choose.