I think the author has just written this book to vent out her negativity. Everytime I read this book, I feel so negative inside. It has very little to do with the title. Sometimes she is actually talking about healing and building home within but other times, she is just distracted.
She is constantly seeking validation throughout the book by giving justification for her actions and I don't understand how it's going to help someone. She is constantly misleading people by telling what went wrong with her in the name of guidance. Also, Why are you making one (Noah) person/incident that much important? Disappointed.