I love this movie..have watched it many times. Sally Field is hilarious and lovably eccentric with her "goofy, colorful outfits" and garbage picked tchotchkes. She is a unique, sweet person who has given up her life to care for her ailing mother. It's sad that a May-December romance where the woman is the pursuer seems like an impossible notion when it happens every day in the reverse with the older man and trophy girlfriend, wife, etc. Why can't a young man love an older woman? It's a whole new world out there. I highly recommend this move.