I personally think that the older kids who are adults let the cord be cut. Besides the younger children they should be granparents, and not trying to live the life of the children. Michelle and Bob has all ready did that been there. Let the older ones have their lives. I am not saying the can't disapprove or be disappointed but who pay the consequences for the anger the grand children . The kids have been taught they know what is right or wrong they know what Mom and Dads believes but they also as human beings should have their own. It's time to get over it. As for Anna she should have left. It will never change the embarrassment and depression she must feel...if she ever admitted it.