Just NotDa1

I absolutely love this program. On Wednesdays, everyone in my circle, knows not to contact me at all. Unless it is a dyer emergency...lbvs Anyway, season 4 really threw me for a loop. On 1 hand, we have Darla, and yes she went through this very traumatic experience, and now she is clinging to Ralph-Angel like he just recently became this magnificent man. Uh hello? He's always been that. yet you didn't want him nor start to see all the great qualities that he has to offer, until he found someone else. Now, her sobriety has taken an even further seat down her list of priorities. Meaning she will most likely relapse again, and again. Its starting to seem like the show doesn't want Ralph-Angel to live a happy life, because with everything that this woman has taken this man through, she should've been a woman and left him be. It has never been a question of how he has felt about Darla. However Darla did only want him back when she was rejected by her new Boo, and when RA had moved on. Don't get me wrong, I'm so very sorry for this very sick, unspeakable trauma that she experienced, but she needs to finish healing, and working through her sober living steps, and the TRAUMA's that she is recently reliving/remembering...now of course I'm js and my opinion is just that, my opinion. I'm sorry if I offended anyone that happens to feel differently. However, having gone through some similar experiences as RA, I feel, like its time he start living his life, and sooner rather than later. My grandma always said; A burnt child, dreads the fire. With that being said, he wouldn't want to give her another chance to burn him. He should take Blu and move on and start a family of his own. js