Beauty only from afar:
Entertainment: 10/10 - love the dialogue (except for the tennagey high school talk). It's funnier than some of some "comedies" out there (it's funny how you start talking when you stop caring about what others think of you). Yeah, plot was about day to day life but I found the characters interesting enough, it was never boring.
Meaning/ depth/ significance/ impact on audience: 0/10- I almost completely disagree with the morals of this movie, even though it's presented as something profound. I'm no saint, but I ain't making movies and promoting depraved as the cool thing to do. Think about it, are we to applaud these actions? Quitting your job through the basis of blackmail, lusting after and following it through with an underage girl, being ok with your wife cheating on you, being emotionally absent with your daughter while expending your energy on her hot friend instead, etc. If the rest of the world thinks that's ok (seeing all the 10 star ratings), then that explains a lot- but I definitely will teach my kids otherwise. I don't hate Lester. Throughout watching it, I liked the guy- but I completely disagree with his actions and can't hail him as a hero of any sort. How the story ends for each character backfires on the message the film was trying to portray.
Acting- 10/10 I very much enjoyed the performances. Each actor delivered the role they were made to portray.
Music: 10/10 had thrown this in there :P
Overall: I can't get behind this film for its message or whatever it's popular for- looking beneath the surface of suburban life, finding imperfection and providing solutions that are blatantly depraved but presented as progressive and admirable. In the moment, while watching the film, I feel good for the guy because he's so much happier now. But you know who else is happier? Drug addicts after getting their fix, husbands who escape their broken family relationships by obsessing over their hobbies, a wife who finds fulfillment in another man, a teenager who seeks love from a boy because her father doesn't give it to her, a teenage girl who enjoys being sexualized because she sees her worth in all the attention she gets from men, and on and on. 5 mins after watching the movie, I came back to my senses, and realized: someone just killed somebody (2 lives are lost- the victim and the murderer) and overall, things are 100x worse off than how it was in the beginning. The approach to all the brokenness in self-image and relationships is just straight- up wrong, no matter how entertaining and enjoyable the movie was. Don't forget about Jane and Ricky and the trauma they have to deal with the rest of their lives. I don't believe the hype. I can't give it a rating lower than a 3 because indeed, it was an entertaining and skillful film (direction, acting, camerawork), but it's cunningly depraved.