To claim that there can be one, well-versed, well written "review," of the show Fleabag, is nothing but a colossal lie. You cannot, in no matter how many words, at one time, express what this show is about, and what this show does to the audience. Well, I would like to sit down with you, numerous times, over a cup of tea, maybe, at a little, quaint hamster-themed café, and discuss life. Or what the brilliance of PWB has named, "Fleabag."
If there is one show on TV that has been able to capture human relationships as it is, and with such deft, it is none but Fleabag. To be able to portray the idiosyncrasies of the closest blood relations, who are not so close after all, the failure at romance or being understood by another person, to turning the sacred oath of friendship into the ground of profane doings, to feeling yourself disassociating when no-one around you has the moment to stop and look at you, acknowledge you, ask after you, really ask after you, what do you do?
You seek the closest thing you can to feel the nerves in your body turn into live wire, or as you call it, "the performance of it." You choose sex, with anyone, with anything, to distance yourself from the reality of being unacknowledged, unloved, unappreciated to such an extent that you don't even have a name. You're an "it," rather than a her. You are a representation of everything that does not fit into the sanitized lived of those around you. You're a woman, and you're lonely. You're lonely because you're a woman. The inherent emptiness and pain that comes with being a woman, the loneliness that no-one talks about, because maybe, women around you, around the world, have accepted that it's best not to speak, because no-one would be listening anyway.