When Rajendra Kumar refused his mother not to send her, it showed that a mother doesn't give that type of care and love which the only his love can give. This is a different kind of love ๐ and no one can take place... Even he didn't live without her. He didn't get that kind of sukoon which he felt only with her. His love was not a temporary. Temporary love called 'havas'. But his love for her was a pure, didn't want to use her... His intention was good and he felt happy when he was with her. He spent his time with her and with not wrong intentions. I think when someone cares about you, loves you with heart (ruhani love), thinks about you, wait for you, looks with a kindness and love, helps you, make you feel better and comfortable with your life, make you happy, worry about your problems and make things easier for you that's call love โฅ๏ธ๐.