I just found this show in Netflix one day and knew nothing about it but I love the premise of it with really making connection via conversation. I think sharing that experience builds a great foundation for a relationship and will allow it to grow from there. I don't know if love is blind because we all have certain preferences and visulization of who we would be attracted to physically. I think the most of the people on the show couldn't get past those preferences and it was to their detriment because they are losing something really great. I myself have had the list but when actually dating really tap into the heart and soul of a person it just hasn't worked out for me yet.