If you are a romcom fan, this film is a quality stuff right there. People, who didnt like it, are, probably, into more serious films. As someone who watched a ton of chick flicks, I loved: a) realism of this movie (surprising for a romcom) b) meaningful message about importance of family and your roots c) no vulgar, trashy humour d) great storyline. If you are searching for something more dramatic, watch BBC “Sense and sensibility”. It’s a romantic comedy, guys, not a melodrama.