I can't seem to move on from the character of Paul right after watching the movie. It just describes so much about me especially when I was younger; the not so manly type, old-school in showing my affection, strangely shy but poetic and, if the movie was my reality I would've chosen to steal a kiss from the same girl. I don't know but, I am so into cute girls who act a lil boyish and simple. So basing on the character of Paul I knew he would like the personality of Ellie and he did.
Listening to what people have to say about us and letting it define who we are or how we should act in front of them are the reasons why we become so confused with a lot of things that do not really matter in the end.
For the youngsters, you just gotta live your lives in your own terms and definition for that is something I've missed to realize early in my life. And do not be scared to fail because if you do, you will fail more and more. Never be scared to be a failure to other people, be scared to be a failure to yourself. In fact, you should avoid people who makes you feel that you are a failure. Their presence will block your potential to learn how not to become a failure. Too bad I've realized this late in my life.
It is quite a struggle to move on and try to make it work after you have found yourself so far from where you were supposed to be going. So be yourself for that's exactly what I will tell my younger me and this goes especially to those who do not have anyone supporting them๐ฏ