I have played PC and console games since the late 80s - NES, SNES, N64, Game Gear, Lynx, PS2, XBox, XBox 360, Xbox One and now Xbox X - Plus multiple PCs. I am from a generation whom grew up in the analogue era, witnessed and lived through the translon to the digital world.
Starfield like all games has its problems, but every game i have ever played does. I was disappointed with the graphics, the cumbersome maps, interactions and a long list of other annoyances. BUT! You can be a space pirate.
You get to build space ships, bases, blow stuff up, explore a universe, interact with loads of stuff (could and should be more) upgrade a vast array of gear and break Sarah Morgan heart!
Its not GoldenEye, its not GTA Vice City, Its not Civilization ITS Starfield and even with its rubbish data slates that seem to be from the Roman Empire not the 2300 and Sarah! i still love it.
Ignore the Bandwagon, give it a chance, be patient eventually you might just love it.