I'm not sure why people are mad about this being unrealistic and crazy, that's always been the point of Gossip Girl. It's rich people drama that makes you go insane, and confused about whos side to take all the time. It's also meant to cater to teens that enjoyed the original, not random adults in their 40's that want to complain about everything and think they know how teenagers act. News flash: teens DO act this crazy in real life sometimes.