If you are a pre-teen or teenage girl or the parents of one, you NEED to read this book. If you are a pre-teen or teenage boy, you NEED to read this book to understand girls and how your actions can impact girls. This book is full of struggles and strengths that effect a person's mental well being. The reader will be saying, "I feel/felt like that." "That happened to me." It points to a healthy way forward, to control over how you react and what you do next. It has humor, drama, and a BFF you will wish you had.