A very deep movie with very deep meaning. Deborah decided to create problems in their mind and decide to blame the world around her and the people around her yet she was the problem from the beginning but couldn't choose to accept that she was the root of all her problems in her mind and in her life. Her problems was not the cause no one else action . not her mothers past or her husbands actions. Secondly is that Deborah was so self centred and though she was better than everyone. we know this because Deborah wanted Bernie loose weight or would shout left when running because she wanted to be better. but when things went wrong she would blame her mental issue and try to play the victim act. third meaning is the fact that flors daughter was so thankful to the clasky family because they gave her what her mother was not able to. but she didn't realise that the clasky families gestures didn't cost them nothing but flors giving costed whole life. just my 10 cents on the movie. love all adam sandler movie :)