I blame both the father and the mother if the mother had not said whatever she said he would have never left. And then the father if only he took the time to understand his son get to know him better, plus he went through first hand of what black young men go through so a daily basis there’s always to sides to the story you have to put your self in others shoes to understand before you make a judgment or anything else and if you don’t know that it’s called being ignorant 🤷🏾♀️.