Itโs ok for Janelle to hire someone but Meri just plain wonโtโMeri, Meri quite contrary. And once again the ones with lot of children have way smaller houses than Meri who lives alone and will probably never need extra room for grandchildren. I think your insecurity in your relationships directly relates to you selfish words, attitudes and demands. Keep crying Meri โyou are famous for it but it isnโt helping anything because you refuse to see that YOU are the problem and you need to adjust your selfish demands. Be aware of the example you are setting for the younger children and how your selfishness is costing the family financially. Poor Cody.