John R. Miles

John R. Miles

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John R. Miles is a best-selling author, a combat veteran, and the visionary behind the globally acclaimed Passion Struck® podcast, which has inspired millions to live with purpose and intention. A former U.S. Navy officer and Fortune 50 executive, John now dedicates his life to helping people of all ages discover their inherent worth and live more meaningful lives. His award-winning book, Passion Struck, and his thought leadership in intentional behavior change have earned him international recognition. You Matter, Luma is John’s first children’s book, born from his own childhood experiences with emotional adversity and a lifelong belief in the power of mattering. Through heartfelt storytelling, John empowers young readers to embrace who they are and know that they truly matter. He lives in Tampa, Florida, where he continues writing, podcasting, and speaking to audiences around the world.

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Most people do not disappear suddenly.

They slowly learn to trade authenticity for usefulness.

Over time, many begin organizing their lives around performance, productivity, and survival while quietly losing the feeling that who they are matters beyond what they provide.

That is the hidden cost of modern life: visibility without genuine connection.

When people stop feeling seen, valued, and needed, something inside them contracts. But when people experience real acknowledgment, emotional safety, and human significance, they expand again.

That is the heart of The Mattering Effect.

Pre-order now:
[www.matteringeffect.com]

#TheMatteringEffect #JohnRMiles #Mattering #Belonging #HumanConnection #MentalHealth #EmotionalHealth #PurposeDrivenLife #IntentionalLiving #PassionStruck

Most people do not disappear suddenly. They slowly learn to trade authenticity for usefulness. Over time, many begin organizing their lives around performance, productivity, and survival while quietly losing the feeling that who they are matters beyond what they provide. That is the hidden cost of modern life: visibility without genuine connection. When people stop feeling seen, valued, and needed, something inside them contracts. But when people experience real acknowledgment, emotional safety, and human significance, they expand again. That is the heart of The Mattering Effect. Pre-order now: [www.matteringeffect.com] #TheMatteringEffect #JohnRMiles #Mattering #Belonging #HumanConnection #MentalHealth #EmotionalHealth #PurposeDrivenLife #IntentionalLiving #PassionStruck

I’m overjoyed to announce my next book, THE MATTERING EFFECT. It’s available for preorder now (link in bio).

Although we’ve never been more productive, many of us have never felt more exhausted. To address that pressing problem, I’ve done a deep dive into why we feel like we are winning on paper but disappearing on the inside. Among the many lessons: burnout isn't usually a time-management problem—it’s a significance problem. We don’t just need more sleep; we need to feel like we matter.

As I put the finishing touches on the book, I’d love to hear from you in the comments. Have you ever felt that specific kind of exhaustion that comes from being "successful" but unseen?

#TheMatteringEffect #mattering #reclaimeworth #theignitedlife

I’m overjoyed to announce my next book, THE MATTERING EFFECT. It’s available for preorder now (link in bio). Although we’ve never been more productive, many of us have never felt more exhausted. To address that pressing problem, I’ve done a deep dive into why we feel like we are winning on paper but disappearing on the inside. Among the many lessons: burnout isn't usually a time-management problem—it’s a significance problem. We don’t just need more sleep; we need to feel like we matter. As I put the finishing touches on the book, I’d love to hear from you in the comments. Have you ever felt that specific kind of exhaustion that comes from being "successful" but unseen? #TheMatteringEffect #mattering #reclaimeworth #theignitedlife

I recently had the opportunity to appear on BLOOM Tampa Bay’s daily health and lifestyle show on WFLA News Channel 8, hosted by the wonderful Amber Freeman.

BLOOM focuses on the topics that shape how we live—health, wellness, relationships, mental well-being, and the everyday choices that help us grow into healthier and more fulfilled lives. It was the perfect setting to talk about the message behind You Matter, Luma.

At its heart, this book is about a simple truth many people forget: every person matters.

When children understand their value and the ripple effect of kindness, they begin to see how their actions can change the world around them.

I’m grateful to Amber and the BLOOM team for creating a space where conversations about well-being, purpose, and emotional health can reach families across the community.

These conversations matter—especially for the next generation.

Thank you for helping us spread the message that **you matter… and the kindness you share matters too.**

I recently had the opportunity to appear on BLOOM Tampa Bay’s daily health and lifestyle show on WFLA News Channel 8, hosted by the wonderful Amber Freeman. BLOOM focuses on the topics that shape how we live—health, wellness, relationships, mental well-being, and the everyday choices that help us grow into healthier and more fulfilled lives. It was the perfect setting to talk about the message behind You Matter, Luma. At its heart, this book is about a simple truth many people forget: every person matters. When children understand their value and the ripple effect of kindness, they begin to see how their actions can change the world around them. I’m grateful to Amber and the BLOOM team for creating a space where conversations about well-being, purpose, and emotional health can reach families across the community. These conversations matter—especially for the next generation. Thank you for helping us spread the message that **you matter… and the kindness you share matters too.**

BIG NEWS! Passion Struck just won the Gold Stevie Award for Best Business Book at the 2025 American Business Awards!⁣
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This isn’t just a win for the book—it’s a win for everyone committed to living with purpose, igniting their potential, and making what truly matters, matter most.⁣
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Thank you to every reader, supporter, and believer in this mission. This is only the beginning. 🔥
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#PassionStruck #StevieAwards #BestBusinessBook #PurposeDriven #Leadership #PersonalGrowth

BIG NEWS! Passion Struck just won the Gold Stevie Award for Best Business Book at the 2025 American Business Awards!⁣ ⁣ This isn’t just a win for the book—it’s a win for everyone committed to living with purpose, igniting their potential, and making what truly matters, matter most.⁣ ⁣ Thank you to every reader, supporter, and believer in this mission. This is only the beginning. 🔥 ⁣ #PassionStruck #StevieAwards #BestBusinessBook #PurposeDriven #Leadership #PersonalGrowth

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Pre-Order: The Mattering Effect

https://matteringeffect.com/

Listen to the Passion Struck Podcast

https://passionstruck.com/passion-struck-podcast/

Book John R. Miles to Speak

https://johnrmiles.com/home/speaking/

Read: The Ignited Life (Substack)

https://www.theignitedlife.net/

Amazon Author Page

https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0C9QXCD61

Connect with John on LinkedIn

https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnmileshumanperformanceexpert/

Watch: Keynote Highlights (YouTube)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oW7cQNjZTEA

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I wasn't expecting a photo to hit me this hard. Today, my publicist received the first advance reader copy of The Mattering Effect. I haven't seen it in person yet. But seeing the physical book for the first time brought me back to the countless early mornings, late nights, interviews, research sessions, rewrites, and moments of doubt that go into creating something like this. Books begin as ideas. Then conversations. Then notes. Then thousands of imperfect words. Eventually, if you're fortunate, they become something you can hold in your hands. This one explores a question I believe sits at the center of so many challenges we face today: Do people feel like they matter? Grateful to everyone who helped make this possible. October can't come soon enough.

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What stayed with me most from this conversation with Marcus Buckingham is how simple and how confronting his insight is: when people describe the best teams, leaders, and companies they’ve experienced, they don’t say they were efficient or satisfying. They say they loved them. That completely changes how we think about leadership because it shifts the question from “How do I get better performance?” to “What kind of experience am I creating for the people around me?” Marcus makes the case that love isn’t soft. It’s one of the strongest drivers of loyalty, trust, resilience, and growth. And if that’s true, then designing better human experiences may be the most important work any leader can do. This conversation genuinely changed how I think about business. #Leadership #MarcusBuckingham #PassionStruck #HumanFlourishing #CompanyCulture #BusinessGrowth #DesignLoveIn

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"Love isn't a feeling. It's a force." Marcus Buckingham argues that the best business leaders don't just measure profit. They measure whether more customers love them tomorrow than today and whether more employees love working there tomorrow than today. What if that's the metric that matters most? #MarcusBuckingham #Leadership #Business #CompanyCulture #PassionStruck

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I've noticed that when people feel disconnected, they often respond by becoming more productive. They work harder, give more, achieve more, and carry more responsibility, hoping that contribution will create the sense of connection they're missing. Sometimes it does for a while. But relationships aren't built on performance. They're built on presence. The feeling of being seen rarely comes from proving your value. It comes from sharing your humanity. #PassionStruck #TheMatteringEffect #Belonging #MatteringGap #JohnRMiles

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What if the reason so many people feel lost has nothing to do with motivation, success, or purpose?

What if they've simply lost the narrative of their lives?

In this powerful conversation, Greg McKeown explains that many of us are navigating life like sailors in the middle of the ocean, disconnected from the story that once gave us direction, meaning, and a sense of who we are.

Yet the insight that struck me most was even deeper.

For generations, we've been taught to understand ourselves by looking inward. We analyze our thoughts, examine our feelings, and search for answers within. While self-reflection matters, Greg argues that the human mind was never designed to exist in isolation.

We discover who we are through connection. We understand ourselves through understanding others. We find meaning through relationships, and we regain our bearings when we are truly seen, heard, and understood.

If you've ever felt disconnected from yourself, this conversation may help explain why. T

What if the reason so many people feel lost has nothing to do with motivation, success, or purpose? What if they've simply lost the narrative of their lives? In this powerful conversation, Greg McKeown explains that many of us are navigating life like sailors in the middle of the ocean, disconnected from the story that once gave us direction, meaning, and a sense of who we are. Yet the insight that struck me most was even deeper. For generations, we've been taught to understand ourselves by looking inward. We analyze our thoughts, examine our feelings, and search for answers within. While self-reflection matters, Greg argues that the human mind was never designed to exist in isolation. We discover who we are through connection. We understand ourselves through understanding others. We find meaning through relationships, and we regain our bearings when we are truly seen, heard, and understood. If you've ever felt disconnected from yourself, this conversation may help explain why. T

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I've noticed something about the moments when I feel most grounded. They rarely happen when I'm achieving something. They happen when I'm walking without a destination, sitting quietly with someone I love, watching the sunrise, or simply allowing myself to be present without trying to improve, fix, or optimize anything. Modern life trains us to believe our value comes from what we produce. The result is that many of us carry an invisible pressure to justify our existence through constant motion. But some of the most important moments of life ask nothing from us except our presence. #PassionStruck #TheMatteringEffect #MatteringGap #IntentionalLiving #Presence #JohnRMiles

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Most people do not disappear suddenly.

They slowly learn to trade authenticity for usefulness.

Over time, many begin organizing their lives around performance, productivity, and survival while quietly losing the feeling that who they are matters beyond what they provide.

That is the hidden cost of modern life: visibility without genuine connection.

When people stop feeling seen, valued, and needed, something inside them contracts. But when people experience real acknowledgment, emotional safety, and human significance, they expand again.

That is the heart of The Mattering Effect.

Pre-order now:
[www.matteringeffect.com]

#TheMatteringEffect #JohnRMiles #Mattering #Belonging #HumanConnection #MentalHealth #EmotionalHealth #PurposeDrivenLife #IntentionalLiving #PassionStruck

Most people do not disappear suddenly. They slowly learn to trade authenticity for usefulness. Over time, many begin organizing their lives around performance, productivity, and survival while quietly losing the feeling that who they are matters beyond what they provide. That is the hidden cost of modern life: visibility without genuine connection. When people stop feeling seen, valued, and needed, something inside them contracts. But when people experience real acknowledgment, emotional safety, and human significance, they expand again. That is the heart of The Mattering Effect. Pre-order now: [www.matteringeffect.com] #TheMatteringEffect #JohnRMiles #Mattering #Belonging #HumanConnection #MentalHealth #EmotionalHealth #PurposeDrivenLife #IntentionalLiving #PassionStruck

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One of the most subtle ways we lose ourselves is through repetition.

In my conversation with Eric Ries, we explored a powerful idea: the behaviors we practice consistently eventually become the values we live by. Most of us assume our values shape our actions, yet the reverse is often true. What we repeatedly tolerate, prioritize, and conform to slowly rewrites who we become.

I've seen this happen inside organizations. A team starts with a clear mission and a strong sense of purpose. Then little compromises begin to appear. Someone says, "The market might not like that." Another says, "Investors probably want something different." Before long, decisions are being driven by assumptions about what powerful people might think rather than by the values that inspired the work in the first place.

The danger is that these shifts happen gradually. We adapt. We justify. We move on. Then one day we look around and realize the culture, the mission, or even our own identity feels different than

One of the most subtle ways we lose ourselves is through repetition. In my conversation with Eric Ries, we explored a powerful idea: the behaviors we practice consistently eventually become the values we live by. Most of us assume our values shape our actions, yet the reverse is often true. What we repeatedly tolerate, prioritize, and conform to slowly rewrites who we become. I've seen this happen inside organizations. A team starts with a clear mission and a strong sense of purpose. Then little compromises begin to appear. Someone says, "The market might not like that." Another says, "Investors probably want something different." Before long, decisions are being driven by assumptions about what powerful people might think rather than by the values that inspired the work in the first place. The danger is that these shifts happen gradually. We adapt. We justify. We move on. Then one day we look around and realize the culture, the mission, or even our own identity feels different than

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For a long time, I thought transformation was about getting through the hard part.

Making it through the setback. Recovering from the disappointment. Finding my footing after life forced me to let go of who I thought I was supposed to be.

What I've come to realize is that those moments are only part of the journey.

The deeper transformation happens when the lessons we fought so hard to learn begin creating value for someone else. A difficult season teaches us compassion. A failure teaches us humility. A loss teaches us presence. Over time, the wisdom we gain stops being something we carry alone and becomes something we can share.

That's how adversity becomes significance.

That's how pain becomes purpose.

And that's how our hardest experiences create a ripple that extends far beyond our own lives.

It continues through every life you encourage, every person you support, and every reminder you give someone that they are not walking through their struggles alone.

What lesson from y

For a long time, I thought transformation was about getting through the hard part. Making it through the setback. Recovering from the disappointment. Finding my footing after life forced me to let go of who I thought I was supposed to be. What I've come to realize is that those moments are only part of the journey. The deeper transformation happens when the lessons we fought so hard to learn begin creating value for someone else. A difficult season teaches us compassion. A failure teaches us humility. A loss teaches us presence. Over time, the wisdom we gain stops being something we carry alone and becomes something we can share. That's how adversity becomes significance. That's how pain becomes purpose. And that's how our hardest experiences create a ripple that extends far beyond our own lives. It continues through every life you encourage, every person you support, and every reminder you give someone that they are not walking through their struggles alone. What lesson from y

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One of the things that struck me most in my conversation with Walter Green was the realization that some of the most important people in our lives have no idea how much they shaped us.

Years later, we can still remember the teacher who believed in us when our confidence was fragile, the friend who stayed close during a difficult season, or the mentor whose advice quietly changed the direction of our lives. Yet so often those stories remain trapped in our heads, carried as private gratitude instead of shared as a gift.

Walter challenged me with a simple question: What would happen if each of us reached out to one person and told them, specifically, how they changed our lives?

Not with a quick "thank you," but with the actual story. The moment. The conversation. The act of kindness or encouragement that became part of who we are today.

The truth is that many of the moments that shaped us most were so natural for the other person that they may not even remember them. Meanwhile, we've

One of the things that struck me most in my conversation with Walter Green was the realization that some of the most important people in our lives have no idea how much they shaped us. Years later, we can still remember the teacher who believed in us when our confidence was fragile, the friend who stayed close during a difficult season, or the mentor whose advice quietly changed the direction of our lives. Yet so often those stories remain trapped in our heads, carried as private gratitude instead of shared as a gift. Walter challenged me with a simple question: What would happen if each of us reached out to one person and told them, specifically, how they changed our lives? Not with a quick "thank you," but with the actual story. The moment. The conversation. The act of kindness or encouragement that became part of who we are today. The truth is that many of the moments that shaped us most were so natural for the other person that they may not even remember them. Meanwhile, we've

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Some of the hardest seasons of my life felt like they were breaking me apart.

Plans unraveled. Identities I had built my life around no longer fit. The certainty I once relied on disappeared, and all that remained was the uncomfortable work of figuring out who I was underneath it all.

Looking back, I can see that those moments weren't meant to destroy me. They were refining me.

Fire changes whatever it touches. It burns away what is unnecessary and reveals what can endure. The same is true of adversity. The struggles we face have a way of stripping away the masks, assumptions, and defenses we've accumulated over time, leaving us face to face with what matters most.

The real gift comes when we stop asking, "Why did this happen to me?" and start asking, "How can what I've learned help someone else?"

That's when pain begins to take on purpose. That's when hardship becomes wisdom. That's when the lessons forged through adversity become something we can pass along to another person who

Some of the hardest seasons of my life felt like they were breaking me apart. Plans unraveled. Identities I had built my life around no longer fit. The certainty I once relied on disappeared, and all that remained was the uncomfortable work of figuring out who I was underneath it all. Looking back, I can see that those moments weren't meant to destroy me. They were refining me. Fire changes whatever it touches. It burns away what is unnecessary and reveals what can endure. The same is true of adversity. The struggles we face have a way of stripping away the masks, assumptions, and defenses we've accumulated over time, leaving us face to face with what matters most. The real gift comes when we stop asking, "Why did this happen to me?" and start asking, "How can what I've learned help someone else?" That's when pain begins to take on purpose. That's when hardship becomes wisdom. That's when the lessons forged through adversity become something we can pass along to another person who

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One thing I’ve realized about myself is that I’m always trying to improve something.

Fix it.
Optimize it.
Push it forward.

And while that drive has helped me build a meaningful life, it can also make it hard to simply be present with where I already am.

This conversation with Eric Zimmer really hit me because we talked about how even our greatest strengths can quietly become our greatest weaknesses when we only see life through the lens of change.

Not every hard moment needs to be turned into a project.

Sometimes peace begins the moment we stop trying to constantly reinvent ourselves.

#PassionStruckPodcast #EricZimmer #PersonalGrowth #SelfCompassion #Mindfulness

One thing I’ve realized about myself is that I’m always trying to improve something. Fix it. Optimize it. Push it forward. And while that drive has helped me build a meaningful life, it can also make it hard to simply be present with where I already am. This conversation with Eric Zimmer really hit me because we talked about how even our greatest strengths can quietly become our greatest weaknesses when we only see life through the lens of change. Not every hard moment needs to be turned into a project. Sometimes peace begins the moment we stop trying to constantly reinvent ourselves. #PassionStruckPodcast #EricZimmer #PersonalGrowth #SelfCompassion #Mindfulness

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A strange thing happens when the identity you spent years building finally stops working.

The ambition that once drove you begins to feel empty. The emotional armor that once created safety becomes exhausting to carry. And somewhere beneath the performance of holding everything together, you start realizing your soul has outgrown the life your survival instincts created.

Real transformation begins when life stops asking you to perform and starts asking you to become honest. Honest about the pain you carry, the validation you chase, and the emotional patterns that once protected you but now keep you disconnected from yourself.

The fire of adversity has a way of separating survival from truth. And in that process, many people discover that the breakdown they feared was actually the beginning of becoming someone far more grounded, open, and alive.

#PassionStruck #JohnRMiles #Transformation #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalHealing

A strange thing happens when the identity you spent years building finally stops working. The ambition that once drove you begins to feel empty. The emotional armor that once created safety becomes exhausting to carry. And somewhere beneath the performance of holding everything together, you start realizing your soul has outgrown the life your survival instincts created. Real transformation begins when life stops asking you to perform and starts asking you to become honest. Honest about the pain you carry, the validation you chase, and the emotional patterns that once protected you but now keep you disconnected from yourself. The fire of adversity has a way of separating survival from truth. And in that process, many people discover that the breakdown they feared was actually the beginning of becoming someone far more grounded, open, and alive. #PassionStruck #JohnRMiles #Transformation #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalHealing

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What I loved about this conversation with Blake Mycoskie is that he took something as simple as a bracelet and turned it into a reason for people to actually check in with each other again.

Inside the box are two bracelets. One is for you to wear, and the other is meant to be given away to someone who may need the reminder that they are enough exactly as they are.

Blake talked about how the real transformation happens in that exchange. You hand someone the bracelet and suddenly there’s permission to have a conversation most people avoid. “How are you really doing?” becomes easier to ask. And maybe even easier to answer.

That part stayed with me because so many people are carrying things silently right now. Anxiety. Pressure. Loneliness. The feeling that they have to keep performing just to feel worthy.

Sometimes all a person really needs is someone who makes them feel safe enough to stop pretending for a minute.

That’s what makes this movement feel different to me. It’s less about

What I loved about this conversation with Blake Mycoskie is that he took something as simple as a bracelet and turned it into a reason for people to actually check in with each other again. Inside the box are two bracelets. One is for you to wear, and the other is meant to be given away to someone who may need the reminder that they are enough exactly as they are. Blake talked about how the real transformation happens in that exchange. You hand someone the bracelet and suddenly there’s permission to have a conversation most people avoid. “How are you really doing?” becomes easier to ask. And maybe even easier to answer. That part stayed with me because so many people are carrying things silently right now. Anxiety. Pressure. Loneliness. The feeling that they have to keep performing just to feel worthy. Sometimes all a person really needs is someone who makes them feel safe enough to stop pretending for a minute. That’s what makes this movement feel different to me. It’s less about

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In a world that often teaches children to measure their worth by performance, achievement, or how much space they take up, stories that remind them they matter simply because they exist feel more important than ever.

This beautiful review captured the heart of You Matter, Luma, perfectly:

“Courage, compassion, and connection begin with believing they matter.”

That is the message at the center of this story.
When children feel seen, valued, and connected, they grow differently. They move through the world with more kindness, confidence, and empathy toward themselves and others.

Grateful for every educator, parent, librarian, and reader helping this message reach more hearts. 💜

#YouMatterLuma #Mattering #ChildrensBooks #KidsBookstagram #JohnRMiles

In a world that often teaches children to measure their worth by performance, achievement, or how much space they take up, stories that remind them they matter simply because they exist feel more important than ever. This beautiful review captured the heart of You Matter, Luma, perfectly: “Courage, compassion, and connection begin with believing they matter.” That is the message at the center of this story. When children feel seen, valued, and connected, they grow differently. They move through the world with more kindness, confidence, and empathy toward themselves and others. Grateful for every educator, parent, librarian, and reader helping this message reach more hearts. 💜 #YouMatterLuma #Mattering #ChildrensBooks #KidsBookstagram #JohnRMiles

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One thing Amy Purdy said during this conversation stayed with me long after we stopped recording:

“We’re always going to have adversity. There’s nothing more human than adversity.”

And honestly, I think that changes everything.

Because so much of our suffering comes from believing the hard season means something has gone wrong with our life, when in reality, challenge is part of being alive. The real question is whether we let those moments shrink us… or shape us.

What moved me most about Amy’s perspective is that she does not talk about resilience as returning to an old version of yourself. She talks about using pain as a catalyst to become someone deeper, wiser, and more purposeful than before.

That is what “bounce forward” really means.

This conversation with Amy Purdy is one I will carry with me for a very long time.

#AmyPurdy #PassionStruck #JohnRMiles #Resilience #OvercomingAdversity #BounceForward

One thing Amy Purdy said during this conversation stayed with me long after we stopped recording: “We’re always going to have adversity. There’s nothing more human than adversity.” And honestly, I think that changes everything. Because so much of our suffering comes from believing the hard season means something has gone wrong with our life, when in reality, challenge is part of being alive. The real question is whether we let those moments shrink us… or shape us. What moved me most about Amy’s perspective is that she does not talk about resilience as returning to an old version of yourself. She talks about using pain as a catalyst to become someone deeper, wiser, and more purposeful than before. That is what “bounce forward” really means. This conversation with Amy Purdy is one I will carry with me for a very long time. #AmyPurdy #PassionStruck #JohnRMiles #Resilience #OvercomingAdversity #BounceForward

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One of the hardest truths Dr. Guy Winch shared with me is that the people most passionate about their work are often the ones most vulnerable to burnout.

Because when something matters deeply to you, it becomes easy to convince yourself that the long nights are temporary, that the missed dinners will balance out later, and that once you get through this season, life will open back up again.

But somewhere along the way, work can slowly begin taking up space that once belonged to your relationships, your health, your peace of mind, and the parts of life that made you feel most like yourself.

What struck me most about this conversation is how quietly it happens. You stay productive. You keep achieving. From the outside, everything still looks successful. Yet internally, your world starts getting smaller.

This episode with Dr. Guy Winch is a powerful reminder that passion should expand your life, not slowly consume it.

#GuyWinch #BurnoutRecovery #Burnout #MentalHealth #WorkStress #Pas

One of the hardest truths Dr. Guy Winch shared with me is that the people most passionate about their work are often the ones most vulnerable to burnout. Because when something matters deeply to you, it becomes easy to convince yourself that the long nights are temporary, that the missed dinners will balance out later, and that once you get through this season, life will open back up again. But somewhere along the way, work can slowly begin taking up space that once belonged to your relationships, your health, your peace of mind, and the parts of life that made you feel most like yourself. What struck me most about this conversation is how quietly it happens. You stay productive. You keep achieving. From the outside, everything still looks successful. Yet internally, your world starts getting smaller. This episode with Dr. Guy Winch is a powerful reminder that passion should expand your life, not slowly consume it. #GuyWinch #BurnoutRecovery #Burnout #MentalHealth #WorkStress #Pas

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Most people think transformation begins when something new is added.

A new opportunity.
A new mindset.
A new version of yourself.

But real transformation often begins with subtraction.

The collapse of an identity.
The loss of certainty.
The stripping away of the roles, routines, and performances you once relied on to define yourself.

That’s the paradox of the pit:
It feels like destruction while it’s happening, but in hindsight, it often becomes revelation.

The island.
The breakup.
The diagnosis.
The burnout.
The failure.
The season where life removes every distraction and asks one terrifying question:

Who are you when there is nothing left to hide behind?

The hard truth is that many of us spend years climbing with a rope tied around our waist — old identities, safety nets, approval, ego, backup plans. Things that make us feel safe, but also keep us from fully becoming who we are capable of being.

Sometimes adversity is not punishing you.

Sometimes it is introducing you to you

Most people think transformation begins when something new is added. A new opportunity. A new mindset. A new version of yourself. But real transformation often begins with subtraction. The collapse of an identity. The loss of certainty. The stripping away of the roles, routines, and performances you once relied on to define yourself. That’s the paradox of the pit: It feels like destruction while it’s happening, but in hindsight, it often becomes revelation. The island. The breakup. The diagnosis. The burnout. The failure. The season where life removes every distraction and asks one terrifying question: Who are you when there is nothing left to hide behind? The hard truth is that many of us spend years climbing with a rope tied around our waist — old identities, safety nets, approval, ego, backup plans. Things that make us feel safe, but also keep us from fully becoming who we are capable of being. Sometimes adversity is not punishing you. Sometimes it is introducing you to you

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When I first wrote You Matter, Luma, I kept thinking about how many people quietly move through life wondering if they matter more than they admit out loud.

Children feel it.
Adults carry it.
Sometimes entire lives are shaped by the absence of hearing those words at the moment they were needed most.

That’s why receiving a 2026 International Impact Book Award for this book means so much to me.

This recognition is deeply personal because You Matter, Luma was never created to simply tell a story. It was created to help people feel seen. To remind children that their worth exists long before achievement, perfection, or performance enter the picture.

In many ways, this award belongs to every parent, teacher, caregiver, and child who continues choosing kindness, empathy, and human connection in a world that often moves too fast to notice one another.

The message behind this book also lives inside the work we are doing through Pass the Ripple, where simple acts of compassion create visib

When I first wrote You Matter, Luma, I kept thinking about how many people quietly move through life wondering if they matter more than they admit out loud. Children feel it. Adults carry it. Sometimes entire lives are shaped by the absence of hearing those words at the moment they were needed most. That’s why receiving a 2026 International Impact Book Award for this book means so much to me. This recognition is deeply personal because You Matter, Luma was never created to simply tell a story. It was created to help people feel seen. To remind children that their worth exists long before achievement, perfection, or performance enter the picture. In many ways, this award belongs to every parent, teacher, caregiver, and child who continues choosing kindness, empathy, and human connection in a world that often moves too fast to notice one another. The message behind this book also lives inside the work we are doing through Pass the Ripple, where simple acts of compassion create visib

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