Sexy and interesting!
Human's are capable of so much more than we are traditionally conditioned for. Traditional is probably great for a lot of people, but not for everyone. And I think the trick is to find a way that works for you and for the people you love. Not always easy. It is definitely not easy in this particular situation.
What is great about the show is that it explores complicated feelings. I think that there is a way to handle the situation that keeps everyone happy. But my solution would not be right for everyone.
And all those push their morals onto others should consider that we do not live in a one size fits all life. They can appreciate other's difficulties.