About 5 years into marriage and working in the hotel management we thought we would purchase a 100 room motel in Myrtle Beach. That didn't materialize and we went another way, together. Watching Sarah & Bryan now, we're convinced, in that situation so many years ago, one or both of us would not have survived. As it is, just past our 45th anniversary, we're going strong. Love the show & feel your pain....