Watching your show today, the absentee mother, the college aged daughter and the two violent brothers. You blame the daughter for being an enabler! Why not put the responsibility on the mother where it belongs? The daughter is taking the burden the mother has shirked .You're expectations of a 20 some year old daughter is ridiculous. The mother is dysfunctional and your are laying the blame on girl that likely hasn't been taught another way. Low self esteem and likely hasn't had appropriate mothering herself. Shame on you, Dr Phil. I'm grateful that the family is getting badly needed assistance. Thank you for that.