Its made me think about how womens feel after 30s, maybe im wrong but all a male experiences or desired to do in his young age was what a 30year old women did or liked to have in her life. A change and to kill the routine. Im in the same situation rn. I have a person to love but i feel like i need something which makes my life or the situation different even if it is risky. Life gives us so many opportunities to do both good and bad abd we feel that everything we do is good for us but not bad. Totally selfish and doesn't fullfill ur dreams or desire evn u do what u like. Im 23 and yes this book made me realizeand accept most of the things in do in my life.