This book was not written for a mature Woman. This book is written for a 19-year-old girl who has no concept of her own Identity let alone what true love really looks like. The character here is flippant, immature, and all over the place. The riding style is even hard to swallow. At one point she even talks in the third person for some reason!? I don’t understand how this book got such high praise and reviews. If you are a self-assured woman, and not into the whole dating scene, ever been married to someone you truly love or widowed, I would not recommend reading this. You will be sadly taken on a very long and arduous ride through wishy-washy female emotions you haven’t seen since six grade.