This was really unkind towards there being any other kind of struggle in life for those of different races, IM MIXED and even found this to go way overboard in absolutely smearing Reese Witherspoon's character for being NAIVE yeah theres a level of toxicity in what see says or offers but it just becomes SO CLICHE and STEREOTYPICAL to the point of almost promoting racism in the "message" it sends about those of different races and the perceived "roles" in society and fail to give empathy TO "ALL" STUGGLES in life and in motherhood.