Man:
I am selfish. I made my woman sacrifice everything for me. Could not support her and I couldn't even give her a happy marriage as a thank you. I should have fought for her cos she deserved to share in my joy just as she did in my suffering.
Woman:
I am stupid. I could have also invested in myself while I supported my man, tamed my anger, never allowed family influence in my marriage and should have moved on with my life with the money he gave me. Could probably have asked for more money. I could have travelled away from everything and start my life afresh.
This movie teaches a lot but I cannot type it all. It's all in my head. I can only give a summary here. If you ask me, both side are to blame.