Well I just started reading this book and so far I love it. I was thinking about one story I read and decided to search the reviews. I like the way it is written to easily comprehend! Learning about npd and narcissistic tendencies, has been my focus for the last four years. I am trying to understand my most recent relationship, which was heart wrenching and looking forward to what else I may learn. I am hopeful that this book helps me to cope with it all. Especially in understanding, others, even myself!