Well Gabriel Bryne is so old he is like 69 and Toni Collette is 47 and they are married, ugh just not realist they are married....He looks to be more like her dad so that is a real turn off in the movie. They could of picked a more age appropriate male actor for her, she is fabulous and would never be with an old man like that. She would be with some hot stud and definitely make it much easier on the eye's for us to watch.