And a 1 is too much. Why did HBO lower itself to this garbage. They had a strange relationship and then it got stranger. As a divorced Mom, with a very HARD situation, I think she is narcissistic and vindictive. What we can do as divorced parents is let our children form their own separate relationships and opinions. My ex was on a scale of 1 to 10 about a 15 per me and experts. I did not bad mouth him constantly and kept a whole lot as far as his BAD/SELFISH/VINDICTIVE actions to myself. I put our kids first. Divorce is traumatic enough. I just loved my children as much and as best I could. They knew always with me they came first. They always felt loved and safe. I went above and beyond FOR THEM. He and I now that they are grown get along. I let him dominate conversations and I carefully avoid many topics. Do not ever expect a true sorry cause you probably will not get it. Life is too darn short.