It's a TV show, not the real world and real relationship building. 32 women vying for the attention of one man at dream resorts, vacation destinations and isolated away from real world issues..... It is frankly disturbing that the general public and shows producers seem to revel in the cliff hanging, soap-opera like drama that pops up. Only 8 couples out a combined 33 seasons are together. Like the end of the Truman Show, time to turn off the Bachelor/Bachelorette America. Nothing to see here..................