Almost unbearable. These people find it dang near impossible to be real and honest. They have no idea how to communicate effectively and get no help. It’s not empathetic or polite to lie and hide your true thoughts and feelings when people want to know. Being kind and loving starts with being kind and loving to yourself and these people had almost no help learning how to do that. They all need a lot of therapy instead of dates. They won’t know how to maintain healthy relationships. It’s sad actually. I pray for them.