Thank you Brother Wilcox for your authenticity and transparency. This is a healing piece of work as the struggle for spiritual, church history, and institutional answers can induce confusion and pain with potential to shake one's whole life paradigm and leave one gasping for breath as if drowning. Whether for self or those we love who are in the struggle, the only real way to help is to talk about these things openly and discover answers. And this is what Bro Wilcox does head on. Mental and spiritual distress is every bit as potent as physical distress. Tackling this arena is very brave. This book is a wonderful example of bearing other's burdens as this kind of burden can be excruciating, but seems to be more often neglected and unaddressed in the mainstream daily functioning of the church for its members. Bro Wilcox gives solid suggestions for keeping a faithful balance in how one perceives challenging information and hard to answer questions.