the movie is heartwarming and heartbreaking at the same time. i havent read the book, so i just found out about the 7-year age gap between Oliver and Elio. that shocked me in a way, but its not new to me. the 10 year age gap between their actors also was a shocker, but if they were alright with it, i am too. im not trying to be a karen, just a little surprised. but overall, the story is understandable and full of emotion. honestly, its a must watch. i did watch this movie for the first time at age 11, so I wouldn't recommend that. AT ALL.