If boundaries were set at 3 years old, clothes dont matter. These are what we have for you to wear, be confident in who you are not the clothes you wear....grandma is not giving you bikinis, purses, earings etc. and help others not as lucky as yourself. Is the best learning lesson. Only half way thru the book and dreading the ending.
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