Abby is a brilliant writer and thoughtful thinker: this book represents a courageous and historic step toward encouraging us all to deconstruct our assumptions, to recognize our inherited intergenerational trauma and begin to commit to healing and compassion. Abby models how to begin the process of living authentically, that we may begin to decolonize our socially constructed identities and beliefs, so that we can see ourselves, each other and our world more clearly. Indigenous teachings and religious doctrines around the world call upon us all to shift from an "us vs them" way of functioning, so that we can live in such a way that our shared ancestral teachings come alive once more: we are all related. This book helps us begin to shift from being the "me generation" to the "we generation" with truth, vulnerability and courage. Mazal tov Abby! Thank you!