I don't completely understand this. Is trashing dust on balaji is a wrong thing then scolding someone and their family with bad words is a good thing? and about ponnambalam if he really treat aishwarya like girl her daughter then why he talked about her with bad words at back instead of doing it straightly...if this happens in real life someone scolds you in bad words you'd just silently walk away or scolds him/her with bad words? In any normal family,if father is drunkard when he is in home he speaks bad words sometimes he slaps us,our mom and sister too at that time we also slap him this is a normal thing. Is this wrong?