Lonnie should not talk about anyones mother needs to get a job. The mother was probably maintaining for Vanessa. She is her mother not her nanny. No ones mother should be treated that way. Money or not. No empathy, and no love. The lost of a love one does not give a pass to mistreat anyone. That is bad behavior, which that person has always had. I can only pray that eyes are opened to be able to regulate a better bond for all family on both sides.