Judge Judy, I like your show, but the episode with the women whose daughter got married and you said "you went CHEAP" when you saw the tables decorated at the reception, was not only unnecessarily RUDE but so HURTFUL.
(Why are people unnecessarily rude?
People have all kinds of ulterior motives for acting as they do. Recognize that some people use rude behavior as a way of showing dominance or displaying power.)