At first I really did like the book, it felt like good advice. But back then I was in a bad place, hurt, trying to gain control over something I couldn’t. Now that I’m reading over my margin notes and underlined « important phrases », I’m literally disgusted. This isin’t seduction, it’s manipulating people and playing with their feelings. You don’t do that to the people you care about. You don’t try to lie, work on their insecurities and change yourself to « obtain » something, you love them and help them build themselves up. That is simply selfish, vanity and egotistical. So no, not a good book. Srry Robert Green