I thought this movie was very touching, and sad at the same time, although it was wrong for Sandy to not tell Holly about the affair and tried to ignore the issue, but I give MUCH props to Holly for being a strong, and forgiving person that's what's being a good friend is all about, even though most women would never forgive the "other woman" being as her friend, but Sandy was a good person at heart, she just made a bad mistake like any human being does personally the best movie that shows good friends was Beaches with Bette Midler, and Barbra Hershey