I'm one of those men that has a build up after 4 or 5 days. As a Christian man, I have struggled my entire adult life with how to deal with that. I have tried so many times to pray my way through it, to ignore it, to ask for my wife's help. I hoped this book would help me too, but it didn't.
I am left dealing with this issue alone. It feels like sin, it causes resentment, it takes what should be a blessing (my strong sex drive), and turns it into guilt and shame and depression. My wife doesn't understand my struggle. She never will.
This book was great for helping me to understand her needs. I have tried for so long to focus on her needs. Book after book, a year of Christian therapy, I just want someone to love me for the way God made me. I didn't choose this.
