I would rate this movie a solid C. As a first-generation Southeast Asian myself, I can relate to some elements in the film. However, certain aspects are not realistic. For instance, thereโs no way a freshman Asian boy in high school would be hanging out with men in their 20s and partying with drugs and sex, this rare for full asian family. This is just a portrayal of very bad parenting. His mom gave him too much freedom to do whatever he wanted without clearly explaining the consequences.
Chrisโs character is portrayed as a weird skate kid who somehow ends up with a half-Asian girl, and she tries to kiss him in an awkward way. This part feels offโitโs a no-no to ever say something like โyouโre cute for an Asian boyโ in that context. It comes across as insulting.
The movie does a good job of depicting an Asian kid struggling to adapt to American culture and feeling an obsession with being white. However, it doesnโt offer a solution to this problem. In real life, it took me about 3โ4 years to understand American culture. Itโs not about being white or half-whiteโitโs about understanding yourself socially in relation to others and the local subcultures around you.
Many Asian kids have first-generation Asian parents who only know their own culture and have never experienced American culture in their childhood. This causes parents to mistranslate a lot of things. American families, by contrast, donโt usually have hardcore cultural standards like those found in Eastern cultures, as they tend to embrace individualism.
A lot of Asian kids think that acting white will make them accepted into small social circles. In reality, these kids are just copying random American behaviors without truly understanding the cultural context. As a result, they end up combining a mishmash of personalities that donโt really align with the cultures theyโre trying to emulate.