For the other women out there that have made it through domestic violence, please be prepared to bawl your eyes out. It was very very triggering for me, like an autobiographical accounting of my life the last 10 years. From the abusers name to the emotional ricochet of othersโ expectations and judgements, the fight for respect to the never-ending climb to the surface for just a minute of air to breatheโฆ the struggle between buying the treat you want versus the birthday balloons for your childโs birthday even when you canโt afford a party, because you want them to remember that you for live themโฆ affording daycareโฆ having more month than moneyโฆ figuring out cough medicine or groceriesโฆ having a safe place to liveโฆ gas in the car, affording the carโฆ so stressed you donโt sleepโฆ never losing your cool in front of the kidsโฆ and doing that for years. And then one person who loves YOU more than your mess comes alongโฆ that olive branch is the difference between giving in or pushing on.
Please. Please watch it. Please have a large supply of tissues. Please be patient with single moms. You may not like what we do or how we do it. You may disagree with our choices. And this isnโt all of our stories. But itโs one helluva lot like mine.