I've been watching this film since 2013 every time I felt lost. For some reason, Arthur's character made me come to terms with the idea of learning to be okay to just BE. It isn't a film that tells you how to be anything really, it has underlying meanings in interactions. My fav quote from the film is "jokes are just disguised forms of aggression," which the movie gives context to. And Robert Pattinson became one of my favorite actors after watching this film.